Brad Burnell, course facilitator for the Thrive Learning Centre at CMHA Portage la Prairie and a certified peer support worker, is leading a grief support series at the Portage Regional Library for the second time this year. The sessions blend structured guidance with personal storytelling, creating a space for shared healing and run Fridays at 10:30 a.m., as opposed to a former series Fridays at 5 p.m.
"We showed them some slides with information, and I also share my experience through my grief journey," Burnell says. "I lost my wife a few years back, and it's been a struggle. Then I got into this 'walking with Grief' type of program, which helped me immensely."
The group provides a judgment-free environment where participants exchange coping strategies. Though attendance has been modest, Burnell emphasizes the value of connection.
A flexible approach to grief support
The eight-week program adapts to participants' needs rather than rigidly following a schedule. Last week’s discussion only covered half the planned material, but Burnell sees no need to rush.
"What’s needed is for people to get together, and the feeling of being alone just kind of disappears while you're in this group," he notes. "It feels good to be with people going through the same thing."
While the library hosts the daytime series, an earlier evening session also ran successfully, with some attendees returning for the current iteration. Holiday closures may occasionally interrupt the schedule, but dates are posted on the library’s online calendar.
Lived experience over clinical formality
Burnell acknowledges some might expect a trained counselor to lead such sessions but argues peer support offers unique benefits.
"There’s a place for a person with lived experience," he adds. "I don’t have all the red tape to go through. When I’m with others who’ve been through the same thing, there’s just a feeling of togetherness."
Participant Janet H. Town appreciates the evolving understanding of grief.
"What I learned in 1976 at the first death workshop I went to has been expanded on tremendously," she says. "There’s more acceptance of talking about what we’re dealing with. It’s hard to articulate, especially during that first year."
Burnell measures the group’s success simply: "They keep coming back. So I’m guessing it’s okay." The series continues weekly, offering ongoing support for those navigating loss.
Interested individuals can call Burnell at 204-240-8513 or visit the Thrive Building at 102 1st St. NW to register. Walk-ins are welcome, though online registration is not yet available.